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Long-Term Life Abroad Research Update: Four Patterns from 40 Interviews
A quarterly update from our life abroad research with those who've lived outside of their passport countries for at least five years.
Sep 4
•
Kay Fabella
5
August 2026
The Friend Who Crosses Borders With You & What Happens When No One Can
On the invisible work of holding all your different selves when your friendships are scattered across countries.
Aug 28
9
4
3
The Cities Your Body Still Lives In
On the way certain streets, stairwells, and smells can put you back in a body you no longer live in — no matter how many years or borders separate you.
Aug 21
•
Kay Fabella
7
2
So You Want to Move to Spain? | A Live Discussion
A behind-the-scenes look into long-term life abroad in Spain, from two people living here today.
Aug 14
•
Kay Fabella
,
Vivian
, and
Asia Dawn Simonelli
5
1:14:59
When You Feel Safer Abroad Than "At Home"
On why some long-term expats, immigrants, and globally mobile folks feel more at ease in their host country than in the place on their passport.
Aug 14
4
2
1
The Hidden Costs of Cultural Code-Switching
On why fluency isn't free, and what the body carries when translation becomes your constant while living abroad.
Aug 7
•
Kay Fabella
3
1
July 2026
Your Nervous System Adjusted to Life Abroad Before You Did
On why safety takes longer to register than danger ever did, and what that means for long-term life abroad.
Jul 31
•
Kay Fabella
4
2
1
The Interior Country You Build After Years Abroad
A birthday reflection on long-term life abroad — and a gift for my fellow Edgewalkers.
Jul 24
•
Kay Fabella
17
7
2
You've Been Rehearsing Pre-Acceptable Answers for Years
On how we move between adaptation and accommodation while navigating culture, language, and social norms in our life abroad.
Jul 17
•
Kay Fabella
7
1
What I Didn't Expect in the Room Where I Shared Your Stories
On how it felt to share my long-term life abroad research in Valencia last month.
Jul 10
•
Kay Fabella
13
3
3
What Long-Term Expatriation Does to Your Nervous System
On why things can still feel hard even when your life abroad works on paper.
Jul 3
•
Kay Fabella
36
48
7
June 2026
Before You Land "Back Home"
On the disorientation that starts before you land back home after life abroad — and why it makes sense.
Jun 26
•
Kay Fabella
9
1
1
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